fix(cli): use node shebang so npx/npm install works without bun
The CLI is built with `bun build --target node --format esm` and contains no
Bun-specific runtime APIs (`Bun.*` and `bun:` modules live only in the plugin
TUI and tests, not in the CLI bundle). The only thing forcing a Bun runtime was
the `#!/usr/bin/env bun` shebang on the entrypoint, which made `npx`/`npm exec`
fail with "env: 'bun': No such file or directory" on machines without Bun.
Switching the entrypoint shebang to node lets `npx oh-my-opencode-slim install`
run on a stock Node install while remaining fully compatible with Bun. bun's
bundler preserves the entrypoint shebang, so the published dist picks this up on
the next build. Also document the npx path in the README.